It's "my friend's mom"
The most easygoing, effortless social interactions I had, have been with my girlfriends' mothers (shoutout to Rachel Bloom).
Imagine a relationship that is an unrealistically idealized version of your relationship with your own mother. Picture the caring comments, the warm chats, and the helpful advice, but without the annoyance that sets off after two and a half sentences, without the repeating passive-aggressive comments, and without the decades-old conflicts.
If all relationships were like the ones with our friend's mom, there would be no bullies, serial killers or dictators. Just nice chats and understanding nods all around.